I had several dreams back-to-back; the first dreams were about me moving. In the first dream, my brother, sister-in-law, and me had to move in with this family. The family put my brother and his wife in a different home, like a guest house, to themselves. They put me and my kitties in their home. My brother and his wife’s set up would seem preferable by having their own space, but my set, living with the family, was turning out well. The family was careful not to let my kitties outside and they liked them, so I felt safe with them there. Everyone there was grown. The mom and dad, 3-5 grown kids, and then me and my kitties. They put me in a room with one of the grown daughters, but she was a little younger than I am, and she quickly felt like a grown kid sister. I wouldn’t have expected it, but I was feeling at home. During my second dream, I was still living there. My brother and his wife weren’t in the second dream. I was making myself more at home. I fixed up the bedroom I shared with the kid sister type friend and my kitties with a few girly things that were like me, and I put out a few decorations that I thought made the house feel like me as well. It was still their style and decorations but with a few of mine added with it. The roommate like what I added. I had a dream that I worked at a department store. A friend got promoted. I happened to go see where she worked and it was super fancy, but the friend who was promoted didn’t seem to care for it. The people there were ugly to each other. I realized I didn’t want this either. I dreamed I was on a bus and this obnoxious guy was there. He said ugly things to people. Then we talked and somehow hit it off. I realized that there was no one like him in a good way. I cared for him and he for me. It was weird. Then he was taking me home, to my new apartment in CA that I dream of often. He had to let me out a few streets over. I could walk. There was danger of a bad storm coming. In this dream, the apartment in my recurring dreams was 1-2 blocks from the ocean in Hermosa Beach CA. I realized I’d lost my key. Would I be able to get in? Then I realized my kitties. Had I checked on them? I hoped they were ok. I dreamed I was with this family, and we went to the building they had owned. It was a huge building full of second-hand items. I loved lots I saw. I was eager to use some of these items in my home.
Your series of dreams presents a rich tapestry of themes that touch on feelings of belonging, transformation, and uncertainty, all while weaving in aspects of family and personal space.
Moving and Living Arrangements: The recurring theme of moving suggests a desire for change or a fresh start in your waking life. The initial scenario with your brother and sister-in-law reflects the comfort and familiarity of family ties, but your position in the household with new people indicates a search for acceptance and a sense of community. The fact that you felt safe with the family and especially appreciated their care for your kitties shows a nurturing aspect in your pursuit of a new environment. This could symbolize an evolving dynamic in your relationships or a need to create a safe haven for yourself, reflecting your aspiration for autonomy while still valuing connection.
Personalization and Home: The act of adding personal touches to the room signifies your desire for self-expression and comfort in a new environment. This highlights a journey of self-discovery where you are not just adapting but also making your space feel more like you. Your roommate’s approval reinforces the idea that relationships—be they family, friends, or acquaintances—are built on mutual respect and appreciation, indicating a positive transformation in your social environment.
Work Environment: Transitioning to your dream about the department store generates insights into your career aspirations. Your friend’s promotion juxtaposed with a toxic workplace may reflect your current feelings about professional life, uncertainty about achieving success, or worries about the culture in your workplace. It reveals an inherent desire to align your career with a supportive and uplifting atmosphere, contrasting sharply with the negativity observed in the store's dynamics.
The Obnoxious Guy on the Bus: This dream conveys a significant shift. Initially, the gentleman's obnoxious behavior may symbolize social anxiety or discomfort with people who are abrasive or negative. Yet, finding connection with him signifies your ability to see beyond first impressions and to form bonds in unexpected places. His presence as a guide to your new apartment amid an impending storm represents facing challenges head-on while seeking comfort in relationships that might not fit conventional ideals. It showcases your resilience in navigating life’s complexities.
Recurring Apartment and Kitties: Your recurring dream of the apartment in Hermosa Beach hints at a deeper longing for stability, freedom, and perhaps a getaway. The proximity to the ocean signifies emotional depth and the endless flow of possibilities in your life. Losing your key, however, introduces a sense of vulnerability and worry about your kitties, representing your instincts as a caregiver. This fear could reflect real-life concerns about your responsibilities or relationships, coupled with the desire to ensure the well-being of those you love.
Second-Hand Building: The exploration of the second-hand store symbolizes the examination and integration of past experiences and memories into your current life. Your excitement about the items found represents a desire to reclaim or reinvent aspects of your identity while recognizing the value in what might be overlooked. This suggests a journey of self-acceptance, where past experiences—both good and bad—play a vital role in forming who you are today.
Overall, this series of dreams seems to encapsulate your quest for belonging and identity, touching on various aspects of your life where you’re grappling with feelings of security, community, and individuality. It’s an encouraging narrative about inviting change and crafting your environment, both physically and emotionally, while still cherishing the bonds you hold dear.